Author: Fany Kiu
Company: ViLife Research and Consultancy / Fan Group Enterprise
Position: Founder
《I Am The Master Of My Life: Breaking Through Adversities To Design Your Own Happiness》
In the eyes of many, I am someone overflowing with energy, clear in purpose, and bold in creation. Yet in truth, I too have experienced confusion, struggle, and moments of self-doubt in the depths of adversity.
I grew up in a comfortable, loving home in Gopeng, Perak. Raised under the tender care and guidance of my parents, I strived to make them proud and naturally accustomed myself to pursuing “perfection” in others’ eyes. The first chapter of my life was smooth and steady; I once believed that walking familiar paths and staying within my comfort zone defined true happiness.
That changed when I met my husband, Simon. During our first year of marriage, I faced my very first clash with reality and differing mindsets. It forced me to pause and ask myself: “Who am I? What kind of life do I truly desire?”
The shift in identity and daily life plunged me into self-blame and emotional exhaustion. I gradually lost my confidence and forgot my innate strength. It was only then that I realized: what truly traps us is rarely our environment, but rather our own cognition, mindset, and vision.
Fortunately, I never gave up on the self that longed to blossom. I am deeply grateful to my husband, Simon, for his unwavering support along the way, and to the mentor of my life—Datin Cherlin, founder of Felement—who helped me rediscover my self-worth at a pivotal moment. I chose to step out of my comfort zone, continuously learn, stay mindful, and break through my limits—reclaiming the driver’s seat of my life starting with self-love.
Upon deeply exploring and mastering the energy of “Five Elements Numerology & Environmental Aromatic Aesthetics,” I realized it not only helped me understand myself better, but also illuminated the intricate relationship between individuals and their environments. As more people discovered their true selves and emerged from confusion through this ancient wisdom, I came to believe that this is more than just a business—it is a lifelong calling.
Beginning with personal consultations, family relationship coaching, and teaching, my husband and I co-founded ViLife and progressively built the Felement Fany Kiu Team. Today, my focus centers on personal growth, family happiness, team empowerment, and emotional state management. Through expertise, platform, and community, I aim to help more individuals discover their unique life trajectory.
I have always believed: If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together. To cherish, touch, and empower lives—and to practice co-creation, sharing, and win-win outcomes—is the core purpose I wish to sustain throughout my life.
Today, I am still evolving. A woman’s true strength does not lie in possessing a flawless life, but in having the courage and capability to choose anew at any stage of her journey.
Adversity never defines a person’s worth; it is the courage to continually grow that determines the ultimate height of one’s life.
The three most vital days in life: Yesterday, Today, and Tomorrow.
Only by understanding yesterday can we master today; and only by mastering today can we create tomorrow.
I am the master of my life.
May every woman standing at a crossroads find the courage to reclaim control over her destiny and become the designer of her own happiness.
Lighting Up Your Happy Life,
Fany Kiu
Five Elements Numerology Master | Personal Growth | Family Relationships | Team Training | Emotional State Management | Felement Brand Ambassador & Five Elements Personality Analyst | Fany Kiu Team Leader