Author: 李奕菲
Company: Xing Fu Li Sdn Bhd
Field: Women’s Growth Education
Position: Lecturer
《When I Live Authentically, Life Naturally Becomes Abundant》
Hi everyone, I’m 李奕菲.
Over the years, I have moved through many different roles — from being an emcee and full-time mother, to studying psychology and Diamond Wisdom, and eventually founding “突起上道” and creating the “幸福5力” system. Along the way, I have accompanied more than 14,000 students in their learning and personal growth. Through all these experiences, I have come to understand one thing more deeply: a woman’s true rise is not about becoming better in the eyes of others. It is about finding her authentic self and having the courage to live as who she truly is.
There was a time when I believed happiness came from what we possessed externally. I worked hard to become what others might consider a good wife and a good mother, building a respectable identity and a stable life. But after experiencing the challenges and lessons that relationships brought into my life, I began to look at myself differently.
Years later, when I looked back, I finally understood that an individual who has not yet fully matured often struggles to sustain a truly fulfilling and intimate relationship.
It was during one of the lowest periods of my life that I encountered Diamond Wisdom. I began to realise that when problems arise in life, the first place we need to look for answers is within ourselves. Since it was my responsibility to find those answers, I decided to take ownership and begin with my own growth.
From that point on, I devoted myself wholeheartedly to learning and practice. I travelled to the United States to study, challenging myself through courses, assignments and examinations conducted entirely in English. I organised reading groups, learning, practising and sharing at the same time.
Throughout this continuous process of growth, I repaired important relationships in my life and gradually discovered my own gifts and purpose.
I realised that living authentically is not about doing whatever we want. It is about finding the intersection between what we love, what we are good at, and the value we can create for others. My past experience as an emcee gave me the ability to express and share; learning English allowed me to explore the world; and working in training taught me how to accompany others in their growth. These seemingly different chapters of my life eventually connected into one path.
When I no longer needed external validation to prove my worth, and instead chose every day to do meaningful things that I believed in and loved, I knew I was finally living as my true self.
Today, I founded “突起上道” and created the “幸福5力” system, hoping to accompany more women in finding their own strength through health, relationships, wealth and inner growth. I believe that when one person begins to change, the future can change as well. When a woman becomes more stable, abundant and empowered, she can positively influence her family and many more lives around her.
A woman’s true rise begins with having the courage to listen to herself, choose herself, and take responsibility for her own life.
When we live authentically, life naturally becomes abundant.